It’s been a full 30 days since I moved out & into my new living space. So far, it’s good. Better than I expected. Actually, I’m not even sure what I expected other than peace but I’m loving it all. Feeling 75% settled in.
Many things linger on that need to be handled, obtained and put into their right place but I’m taking it one day at a time. After all, I am human.
Still kinda cannot believe that I moved from the home that I helped build 10 years ago. Away from my kids. That shit is hard to process but it was going to happen anyway because the divorce is & will not stop until it does 40 days from now.
Until then…. I’ll be spring cleaning & getting my outdoor living space right for warm spring & summer nights.
On a separate note, I applied for graduation today. It all goes down in 45 days!!!!
I’m so full of countdowns these days.
Fave / March 15, 2012
I’m not gon’ lie…I hate this shit. I hate divorce. I hate it so much because I respect and love marriage so much. I hate what it does to us. I hate what it does to our friends and family. Most of all, I hate that sometimes it’s just necessary, no matter how much I hate it. My prayer is for you is for peace and comfort for all those touched by the decision. Respect.
J V L I V S / March 18, 2012
I agree with Fave. Next to death, divorce is the enemy of live(s) put together, lives created, plans made, and plans shattered. I am still hoepful that you and your wife will reconcile, but only you and her and The Almighty knows the whole story. But as one older gentleman told me in recent years, “sometimes you have to subtract in order to add”. And if you have to subtract drama and stress from your life in order to add peace, tranquility, and freedom to your life, then go for it!
Hopefully down the road, you and your (soon-to-be) ex-wife will at least rekindle the friendship that you two had-at least for the sake of your kids!
As you told me some years back, keep ya head up!