Mindspill Well, I got married for love, the love of my then babies momma & the love of my sweet baby Olivia (I cannot believe I just said that mushy shit).

What I really wanted to start this post out with was the fact that I found my precious (wedding ring). Actually Suit Suzy found it yesterday with going through my laundry. We were both relieved that it was found but I think Suite Suzy was more excited than I.

I think she sees the ring as a shield against anyone looking to get some of my hot dick & nuts. I was happy that it was found because that I had one less thing to be dogged out about.

Needless to say, I will not be taking my ring into the gym anymore!


Saturday me & my boo went on a childless date for a little dinner for a movie (finally). Of course we went to see Tyler Perry’s “Why Did I Get Married”.

I am not in the mood to go into all of the details, so I am just going to say, if you have not seen it yet, go ASAP!

We both loved the movie & thought Tyler outdid himself bit time. I appreciated all of the characters & that bitch “Mike”.

Putting myself out there, I got a little teary eyed on a few scenes because I was seeing somethings that resonated with me as far as my behavior, feelings & thoughts. Some of the scenarios mos def showed me that I was in a good relationship that needs some nurturing, patience, understanding & sex.

This is the 1st movie of Tyler’s that I would not consider a “Black” movie & that is OK. I think anyone can see this film & walk away with something that they can relate to good, bad, ugly or all.

Jill Scott did a wonderful job & I would love to see her & her tib ole bitties in more films. There was a point where I thought that her song “Wanna Be Loved” was going to be played because it would have fit this movie so well.

I have yet to talk to anyone who thought the movie was wack, so I guess that is saying something really good. Not to mention that it has taken in more than $53.2 million so far

“Why Did I Get Married” is more proof that we are more than drug dealers, jokesters, losers, $2 hoes (Halle Berry) etc.

With all of this said, Tyler, if you are reading this, I am no longer mad at you for making “Daddy’s Little Girls“.

Have you seent’ the movie yet? What are your thoughts???????